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Harriette Cole: I’m on the brink of unloading on my husband about the car crash

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

DEAR HARRIETTE: My husband recently crashed his car while running a stop sign, and I’m finding it difficult to cope with the situation.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: I can no longer be silent about this messed-up family Advice | Harriette Cole: She’s the restaurant patron from hell, and she needs to hear that Advice | Harriette Cole: How to reboot when Thanksgiving stress sets in Advice | Harriette Cole: What do I do about an ex-friend who’s trying to undermine my work? Advice | Harriette Cole: My newfound love of reading is disrupting my life The worst part is that we were so close to paying off the car, and now we have to deal with the financial repercussions of the accident.I can’t help but feel upset and frustrated, especially considering the progress we had made in paying off the car. It feels like a setback we didn’t need, and I’m struggling to find a w...

Miss Manners: How do I tell these people I don’t want their prayers?

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My question concerns the phrase “thoughts and prayers,” which imposes one’s own religion on those with differing (or no) religious beliefs.Related ArticlesAdvice | Miss Manners: My mother-in-law tried to ban me from wearing bright colors on vacation Advice | Miss Manners: Is this lowering of office chairs a common practice? Advice | Miss Manners: How can I rein in a greedy co-worker? Advice | Miss Manners: How should I have responded to a loud comment about my makeup? Advice | Miss Manners: She was embarrassingly rude in public and then blamed it on anxiety I do respect the rights of individuals to believe in and practice their own religion. I do not, however, think that any religious beliefs/practices should be forced upon others.I am a lifelong atheist who abandoned religion once I was old enough to challenge my parents’ beliefs. I have now been diagnosed with...

Dear Abby: I can’t believe my son spoke to his partner that way

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

DEAR ABBY: I overheard my adult child speak to his significant other in a way I have heard only one other time. My child was not raised that way. My spouse and our children lived in what I thought was a traditional upbringing.Related ArticlesAdvice | Dear Abby: My sister met a British guy, and now she’s a mouse Advice | Dear Abby: My husband says he can’t wear his wedding ring to the office Advice | Dear Abby: All these women want to date me, and I don’t know what to do Advice | Dear Abby: How can I get my wife to give my car keys back? Advice | Dear Abby: I’m dreading talking to this girl’s parents about the cheek situation I was shocked the first time and calmly expressed that speaking to another person with those words was disrespectful. I chalked it up to his being young and not being mindful of other people’s feelings.Once again, although I was not attempting to e...

North Korea restores border guard posts as tensions rise over its satellite launch, Seoul says

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

SEOUL, South Korea (AP) — North Korea is restoring front-line guard posts that it had dismantled during a previous period of inter-Korean rapprochement, South Korea’s military said Monday, after animosities spiked between the rivals over the North’s recent spy satellite launch.The two Koreas previously dismantled or disarmed 11 of their guard posts inside their heavily fortified border, called the Demilitarized Zone, under a 2018 deal meant to ease front-line military confrontations. But the deal is now in danger of being scrapped as both Koreas openly threaten to breach it. The 2018 agreement required the two Koreas to halt aerial surveillance and live-fire exercises at no-fly and buffer zones that they established along the DMZ, as well as remove some of their front-line guard posts and land mines. The deal left South Korea with 50 board guard posts and North Korea with 150.After North Korea claimed to place its first military spy satellite into orbit on Nov. 21, South...

Hardik Pandya back at Mumbai Indians in high-profile trade ahead of 2024 season in IPL

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

MUMBAI, India (AP) — India allrounder Hardik Pandya sealed his return to Mumbai Indians on Monday in a high-profile trade ahead of the upcoming Indian Premier League season.Pandya became a superstar in his home country during his first spell with Mumbai from 2015-21, when he won the title four times. He was released and joined new franchise Gujarat Titans, which he led to the IPL title in 2022 as the team’s captain.Under Pandya, the Titans lost the 2023 final to Chennai Super Kings.Pandya will reunite with India internationals Rohit Sharma, Jasprit Bumrah and Suryakumar Yadav in Mumbai, which described him as an “eternal fan favorite.”“From being a young scouted talent of Mumbai Indians to now being a Team India star, Hardik has come a long way and we’re excited for what the future holds for him and Mumbai Indians,” said Nita. M. Ambani, the team’s co-owner.Mumbai also has traded Australia allrounder Cameron Green to Royal Challengers Bangalore.Financial details of the t...

China inicia investigación criminal sobre banco en la sombra que se declara “insolvente”

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

(CNN) — Los problemas que aquejan a uno de los conglomerados financieros privados más grandes de China se profundizaron con Zhongzhi ahora en el centro de una investigación criminal.La policía de Beijing inició una investigación sobre la unidad de gestión patrimonial de Zhongzhi Enterprise Group, según dijeron las autoridades durante este fin de semana. El anuncio se produce pocos días después de que la empresa dijera a los inversores que es ” gravemente insolvente”.Según un comunicado publicado este sábado, la policía sospecha de Zhongzhi de “delitos ilegales” y aplicó “medidas penales obligatorias” contra varios sospechosos, incluido uno de apellido Xie. El fundador del grupo, Xie Zhikun, murió de un ataque cardíaco en diciembre de 2021, pero sus sobrinos ocupan puestos clave en el grupo, según los medios estatales chinos.“Se solicita a los inversores que cooperen activamente con la policía en la investigación y recopilación de pruebas”, dijo la polic...

New documentary details over the 30-year legal battle DC’s family services faced

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

A D.C. agency shares how it turned trouble into triumph in a new documentary film called “Resilience: DC Child and Family Services Agency’s 32 Years of Reform.”The documentary is based on the 1989 class action lawsuit LaShawn v. Bowser after a four-year-old in the agency was placed in emergency care for more than two years.Robert Matthews, director of the D.C. Child and Family Services Agency, talked about the lawsuit filed on behalf of foster children in the District’s care. He said some social workers didn’t have the training to ensure children were viable, and staff couldn’t really ascertain where children were placed.They didn’t have “an adequate placement array,” Matthews said, adding that the agency didn’t have an appropriate number of beds for children coming into foster care.Robert Matthews (Courtesy D.C. Child and Family Services Agency)As a result of the lawsuit, a federal judge appointed a court monitor. And over...

Virginia State University to be first HBCU to host presidential debate

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

Virginia State University announced that it was selected to be one of the 2024 presidential debates, making it the first historically Black college or university in the U.S. to receive that honor.“We are honored and grateful to have been chosen as a host for a 2024 Presidential Debate,” said VSU President Dr. Makola M. Abdullah. “This is a historic moment for our university and for HBCUs nationwide.”According to a news release, the debate is scheduled for Oct. 1, 2024, at the VSU Multipurpose Center. It will be the second of three official presidential debates in the general election.The nonpartisan Commission on Presidential Debates said the first of three presidential debates will begin on Sept. 16 at Texas State University in San Marcos. The final debate will be at the University of Utah in Salt Lake City on Oct. 9.A 2024 vice presidential debate has also been scheduled for Sept. 25 at Lafayette College in Easton, Pennsylvania.Eldon Burton, the university&...

Beijing police investigate major Chinese shadow bank Zhongzhi after it says it’s insolvent

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

HONG KONG (AP) — Police are investigating suspected crimes of a Chinese wealth company owned by Zhongzhi Enterprise Group, according to the Beijing Public Security Bureau, days after the firm told investors it was insolvent.In a statement published on the social media platform WeChat over the weekend, the police said they had taken “criminal enforcement measures” against several suspects to investigate and had urged affected investors to lodge a complaint. “Investors are requested to actively cooperate with the police in investigating and collecting evidence and safeguard their rights and interests through legal channels,” the statement said. Authorities did not specify what crimes they were investigating. In the past, defaults or other troubles in the financial sector have prompted protests by aggrieved investors. Zhongzhi, which is based in Beijing, did not immediately respond to an email for comment and phone calls to a number listed for the company did not connect.The investigat...

2 DC finance whiz kids honored for their money sense

Published Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:14:25 GMT

Lavinia and Hatcher Pitts. have become experts in saving for big ticket items. (Courtesy Pitts family) Lavinia and Hatcher Pitts. have become experts in saving for big ticket items. (Courtesy Pitts family) Last Christmas, 13-year-old Lavinia Pitts, and her twin brother, Hatcher, received access to a money management app from their parents.Their mother, Mary Pitts, kept forgetting to give them their weekly $12 allowance. The family got the app because it was an easy way to shell out weekly spending cash while giving their children some hands-on money management skills, Pitts said.Lavinia and Hatcher took to it so well that the teens were recently awarded the “Best of the Best” recognition from the BusyK...